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i feel the stones again... 'you can't always get what you want'

i went off climbing yesterday and i had intentions. which i tossed out the window immediately because of a nebulous sense of 'don't do it' and because someone really cool made it pretty clear that he wanted to climb with me. although at first i thought i was the excuse person for another girl... but i wasn't. i have to think of a nickname better than 'hot climber guy' though. I want to call him butter because that's how people describe the way he moves but that seems sorta lame.

so i did. and we had a great time y'all. this is someone easy to talk to that i can tease and who seems fully willing to tease me and order me about. why is being ordered about fun? you try doing it for a living and see how much you like it if someone does it to you.

two ways a lot or not at all. i'm an a lot. he took it well when i did it to him too which was cool. people who can dish it out but can't take it get a bit wearing after a while.

so we climbed and she chucked us after a bit and frankly if i were her i would have chucked us also. but it was funny. i was trying not to be a third wheel so i would like go work my bouldering problem when it wasn't my turn and i'd get summoned back for 'teaching' and whatever and i think we third wheeled her.

was a lot of fun anyway. [also i really like it when a person remembers previous conversations with you and refers back to them. shows they're interested and paying attention and it's nice. no, i'm not assuming he's after me, just that he finds my company congenial]

and then we sat around with a couple of other climbers and it turns out there's a party saturday and everyone is going. yes, a couple of my imaginary boyfriends are going for sure. screw this making decisions shit, i'ma gonna see what happens instead.

i knew about the party but i thought since i didn't know the hosts that i wasn't invited but they were all looking at me like 'aren't you going?' so i made the 'didn't know i was invited' shrug and they're like 'everyone is invited there's flyers over there' so i'm going.

it should be a lot of fun because the instructions are to wear bedroom clothing with kinky things encouraged.

now y'all have seen my hallowe'en pics and you know what my 'kinky wardrobe' looks like. well parts of it anyway. and i can't do it because this is like professional level kink clothing not just funky lingerie from frederick's of hollywood or something and i just don't think i want to wear this level of kinkwear to a climbing party.

which leaves me my fuzzy blue pyjamas with sheep on them. i think i'll wear a really hot and black tank top underneath and just lose the top or leave it open... maybe a hot coloured bra underneath. *snerk* maybe i'll bring my crop.

opinions welcome of course.

at this point butter (no that doesn't work, need a better nick) started asking me movement questions and i ended up lecturing them about their armpits and how to work their abs and what's a better push up and... it's horrible you guys, you cannot turn off the inner pilates instructor no matter how you try.

it's fine when i go normally because she's sort of dormant but he yanked her out. the funniest was the man with the massive jet lag trying to figure out this weird movement shit i was talking about. so i suggested he ask me when he's awake... course if i was him i'd be afraid of me now. *chuckling*

and then there was some bouldering and we were pretty much the only two people in the part of the gym we were in and he was too tired to climb and i wasn't so i started working some stuff and he had really fucking useful suggestions y'all.

this whole time i thought people were pushing their knee up and twisting to get height but that's not what he does at all. he drops his other leg which forces his knee and hip up and then *boom* just like that you've gone up several feet.

funny thing is that it's harder but so much better. so i found some new sore muscles today. and they are mother fucking sore but i think in the long run i've learned something crucial to my progress.

damm was a good night and a good day today!